**Blogs**  

Welcome to my blog, the Royal Kitchen! I’m thrilled to have you here in my queendom. Thank you for exploring the delicious world I’ve created!

Have you ever experienced the vibrant energy of Miami, Florida? Miami is simply captivating, from the stunning shores of South Beach to the bustling streets of Brickell Avenue and the picturesque views along Biscayne Bay. There’s an undeniable allure in this city, especially as night falls; it’s a place that inspires passion and connection.
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Everyone has their own idea of how a perfect date should go. For me, the destination should be a surprise. If we leave at 8, you must be ready by 7:30 to show me you will always be patient with me. I do not wear makeup that often, so getting dressed will not take too long because all I will...

**If We Can Love**  

2/26/2021

Though my time on this earth has not spanned many years, I’ve gained profound insights into the human experience. I’ve witnessed laughter, fear, doubt, confusion, loss, and desire. I’ve felt the spectrum of emotions—sadness, discouragement, despair, hope, and hopelessness. Love stories surround us; I’ve seen people fall deeply in love only to later become strangers, while others find joy in each other’s company despite the lack of romance. This multitude of experiences has led me to understand the weariness that can come from running away from one's own self—being trapped in the mind while striving to meet societal expectations.

Many people are grappling with the hardships of life; some may even give up the fight. I don’t blame them—life can be unbearably difficult, a relentless series of challenges akin to a never-ending game of dodgeball, where fairness is rare. Each day, we engage in the same dance, caught in a cycle of limbo. We repeat this process until we feel drained and unable to continue. Some persevere, defying the pressures that seek to break them, while others allow the weight of depression to consume them.

Life is indeed full of surprises, just like love. They both encompass elements of deceit, pain, bliss, and heartbreak. Each experience weaves into our own narrative of seeking a fairytale ending. We love, and our hearts break; we endeavor to love again and face more heartbreak, and yet, despite the emotional baggage, we cling on, sometimes far too tightly. The undeniable truth is this: if we can love, we can truly live.

-QC Blog

The Dirt in My Home  

Home Sweet Home, indeed! But what if, for some, home is the thing that tears our hearts apart?

I wish I could state differently, but again, Sant lan frape nenm two fò. Here we go again with another hashtag (#): post and repost, pretending we genuinely care. Perhaps we do, but this fleeting burst of motivation isn’t new; it’s the same old story, and in an instant, everyone moves on until the next crisis arises.


Enough is enough; nou pap kite farin lan retounen nan menm sak fwa sa a. Violence in Haiti isn’t a revelation; crime has become a disturbing normalcy, but this time it’s worse. The surge in kidnapping, burglary, and homicides, coupled with a deeply divided political landscape, is happening at a moment when we should be united. As a nation, we often fail to recognize that we are on the brink of collapse until it’s too late.


The reality is that many of us lack genuine concern for our country. At our core, we are focused on survival, trying to create a safety net for our children, often at the cost of our neighbors. We remain trapped in this mentality of ki melem, believing that as long as we stay among the elites, we are safe.


We exploit those struggling to get by, building our wealth on their backs, and then use their children to carry out our dirty work, labeling them as bandits who can’t even meet our children’s gaze. What do we expect when all these kids know is how to wield guns? While some may want to attend school, public schools are understaffed, and private education is beyond their families’ means.


We lack a government that truly supports them. Tout koukouj klere pou je yo, zafè kabrit pa zafè mouton, and we stand at a crossroads, rallying under the hashtag #freehaiti. We have numerous dangerous neighborhoods like Cité Soleil, Savien, Village de Dieu, Grand Ravine, and many others where survival hinges on crime, all while being exploited by those entrusted to protect them. In the past, these groups executed their enemies, but when they were no longer helpful, they were discarded and hunted down, with no alternative.


Just as you wouldn’t demand a musician put down their instrument without giving them another path forward, you cannot expect gangs to relinquish their weapons without providing a viable means of survival.


That said, nothing justifies taking another person's life. Yes, avenues may seem closed off, but is this the only means of survival? Kidnapping individuals who struggle to eat two meals and those who “kole pyese, dezabiye ti Pyè pou abiye mèt Jan Jak” are nonsensical. If survival were the goal, this approach is utterly misguided. Just as a bucket cannot be filled from a nearly empty gallon, a peanut seller cannot suddenly have a million-dollar wealth. It’s basic common sense!


This lack of understanding pains me deeply because Haiti is my home. While they say “home sweet home,” mine is filled with fear and uncertainty. The soil is tainted, and it desperately needs purification. We must start by addressing the issues in Village de Dieu.


#freehaiti – but let’s clarify, free it from whom? 


                                                                    QC Blog

**2020: A YEAR OF DREAMS AND NIGHTMARES**


It all began with excitement, fireworks, wishes, bucket lists, and the promise of a new decade. We entered the year brimming with anticipation, with hopes of living another 365 days filled with adventure. While some planned vacations, others saved for prom, and many awaited the thrilling moment of graduation, we also remembered those like Ahmaud Arbery, Kobe Bryant, Pop Smoke, George Floyd, and Bryce – treasured lives taken too soon.

We envisioned a better year ahead, one with promotions, diplomas, degrees, good jobs, and increased income. But perhaps we needed to focus on being more humble and more human. We should have prioritized wisely, for this year navigated us through crises that demanded we rethink our approach to life. Who could have imagined that a simple surgical mask would become more trendy than high-end fashion labels like Prada, Balenciaga, or Gucci? This crisis confined us to our homes, testing our resilience while we yearned for freedom, keeping a distance even from our swimming pools.

We faced not only a global pandemic that threatened lives and livelihoods but also an ongoing struggle for equality, challenging racism and violence. We stood united, marching for justice, even when we were told to avoid gatherings of more than ten people. We embraced our fellow Black families, responding to their pain with solidarity, even when staying apart was the recommendation. We grappled with the unbearable reality of lives lost—parents and siblings taken from us—while demanding our voices be heard. 

Just like in years past, we have been loud, we have been visible, and we have continuously demanded that Black Lives Matter. This singular message is perhaps the one constant in our history of struggle against oppression. For generations, we’ve endured brutality and injustice simply because of our skin, our heritage, and our unwavering spirit. COVID-19 was meant to be a wake-up call, yet here we are, using hashtags like "I can't breathe" (#icantbreathe), underscoring a painful reality.

2020 is a time of illusions, where humanity confronts its deepest fears. It feels as if we are trapped in a horror movie that refuses to end. Pinch me—if this is a nightmare, I need one more ride to take us from 2020 to 2021. This time, I’ll gladly pay the fare, because this experience is beyond anyone’s wildest dreams or darkest nightmares.

-QC Blog-
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